10 Signs That You Are the Toxic Person in Your Workplace (and What to Do About It)

Written By Beverly Beuermann-King

Building Resiliency Through Stress and Mental Health Strategies.
For over 20 years, Beverly has used her S-O-S Principle™ with teams who want to control their reactions to stress, build resiliency against life’s challenges and live full and flourishing lives. Beverly works with teams and leaders to shift from stressed out to resilient, enabling them to be more engaged, productive and healthy.

Toxic Person

As a leader in the workplace, it is essential to cultivate a positive and productive environment for your team. However, sometimes leaders may unknowingly exhibit toxic behaviours that negatively impact the work culture and employee morale. Recent studies shed light on the signs that indicate you might be the toxic person in your workplace. In this article, we will explore these signs and provide actionable steps for leaders to address and rectify their behaviour.

Constant Criticism and Negativity

Are you frequently criticizing and finding faults in your team members? A toxic leader tends to focus on the negative aspects rather than acknowledging their employees’ efforts. This behaviour can demoralize the team and hinder their motivation to excel.

What to do: Practice constructive feedback by highlighting areas for improvement while also acknowledging their achievements. Adopt a positive approach to motivate your team and create a supportive work atmosphere.

 

Micromanagement and Lack of Trust

Do you struggle to delegate tasks and find yourself micromanaging your team? A lack of trust in your team members can be a sign of toxic leadership. Micromanagement stifles creativity and hampers employee autonomy.

What to do: Empower your team by delegating tasks and trusting them to deliver results. Offer guidance and support when needed, but allow your employees the space to showcase their skills and expertise.

 

Favouritism and Unfair Treatment

Playing favourites among your team members is a clear indication of toxic behaviour. Showing preferential treatment can lead to resentment and division among your employees.

What to do: Treat all team members fairly and equally. Recognize and reward achievements based on merit, and foster a culture of inclusivity and collaboration.

 

Lack of Accountability

As a leader, taking responsibility for your actions and decisions is crucial. Avoiding accountability and blaming others for failures can create a toxic work environment.

What to do: Acknowledge your mistakes and be transparent with your team. Encourage open communication and show a willingness to learn from your errors.

 

Ineffective Communication

Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and frustration among team members. A toxic leader may fail to listen actively or they may dismiss others’ viewpoints. According to a survey by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM), 58% of employees stated that their managers could improve their communication skills, which is crucial in avoiding toxic behaviour.

What to do: Improve your communication skills by actively listening to your team and fostering open dialogue. Be approachable and encourage feedback from your employees.

 

Undermining Team Members

Are you dismissive of your team’s ideas or contributions? A toxic leader may undermine their team members’ efforts, leading to a lack of confidence and enthusiasm.

What to do: Encourage creativity and innovation within your team. Show appreciation for their ideas and encourage them to take initiative.

 

Neglecting Employee Well-Being

A toxic leader may prioritize results over employee well-being, leading to burnout and decreased job satisfaction.

What to do: Prioritize work-life balance and support your team’s mental and physical well-being. Show empathy and offer resources to help them manage stress.

 

Lack of Empathy

The inability to understand or empathize with your team’s challenges can create a toxic work environment. A lack of empathy can lead to feelings of isolation and disengagement among your employees. A study published in the Journal of Applied Psychology revealed that employees who perceived their leaders as less empathetic were more likely to experience feelings of burnout and disengagement.

What to do: Practice empathy by putting yourself in your team’s shoes. Show genuine concern for their well-being and be supportive during challenging times.

 

Resistance to Change and New Ideas

A toxic leader may be resistant to change and new approaches, stifling innovation and growth within the organization.

What to do: Embrace change as an opportunity for growth and encourage your team to explore new ideas. Foster a culture of continuous improvement and learning.

 

Lack of Recognition and Appreciation

Neglecting to recognize and appreciate your team’s hard work can lead to feelings of undervaluation and disengagement. A Harvard Business Review survey reported that 60% of employees stated that they would be more motivated if they received more recognition and appreciation from their managers. Recognizing and appreciating employees’ efforts can significantly impact their engagement and productivity.

What to do: Regularly acknowledge and appreciate your team’s contributions. Celebrate achievements and milestones to boost team morale.

 

Being aware of the signs that indicate you might be the toxic person in your workplace is the first step towards creating a positive work environment. By taking responsibility for your behaviour and implementing the suggested actions, you can transform your leadership style and foster a thriving and supportive workplace culture. Remember, as a leader, your actions set the tone for the entire organization, so strive to be the best version of yourself and inspire your team to reach new heights.

Contact Beverly about hosting a workshop for your teams on how to deal with difficult people at work. Learn strategies to create a more positive attitude in the workplace and encourage an engaging, safe working environment!

 

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Additional Resources:

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